Friday, December 11, 2009
WAKE UP MOMMY!
Monday, November 23, 2009
WHAT?
Websites and flier
Thursday, November 19, 2009
So busy
Sweet baby boy is 5 1/2 months old now and trying to crawl everywhere. Good thing his next up bigger brother is still obsessed with vacuuming.
The baby food thing never took...just like it didn't "take" with the rest of them. We'll try again next month and see how it goes. He did get his first two teeth weeks ago. That is always so much fun for this nursing mommy.
I did finally get two new websites up and running for our churches. I really hope they are useful to someone because I really like doing it. (Not the first day when I was learning the new interface, but now it is good)
I am just remembering that I need to write a Christmas letter! Sigh. Maybe I will just write a blog post complete with pictures and include the info in a card in case anyone feels compelled to read about it. LOL
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
New computer
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
Enough money
I LOVE the story of the widow and her son. Elijah asks her for her last bit of flour and oil. "Selfish!!" Some would say. But the almost best part, she willingly gives it to him! Not, "But Pastor Elijah, I don't have anything to give! This is the only money (food) I have left!" GOD is faithful. He continues to provide for the woman and her son for many years. She did not balk at God's law to obey the prophet He sends.
I do not know how God did it. I do not know how God continues to do it today! I can tell you though that our family is testament to the fact that He does provide all that we need to support this body and life...He always provides enough for us to return a portion to Him as well.
Saturday, September 19, 2009
H1N1
As far as flus go, I can think of a few we've had that have been much, much worse, but it is just scary to have one when there is a baby in the house.

Little 8 yo girlie got a prescription for Tamiflu to help her get well faster and the Dr gave us extra to give to almost 4 and 6 yo boys so they might not get it. I will call the dr on Monday to get some for 17 yo dear daughter taking chemistry and pre-calculus at the community college. Can't miss a week of that! I wish I'd gotten something for 19 yo dear daughter since it seems to have hit her the hardest symptom-wise, and none of the OTC nose meds are putting a dent in her misery.
The blessing is "all in one week." We've had flus last months. That really stinks!
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
A Proud Homeschool Moment
I was feeding the baby in the living room when I hear my three year old darling announce to the lunch table, "I can spell! A-S-S! That spells the 'A' word."
oh joy hooray hooray
Tuesday, September 1, 2009
Firsts and seconds...
He woke up hungry at 7:30 this morning and I dragged myself to his crib to retrieve him. Surprise! He'd rolled himself over! One would think that this simple act would be "no biggie" with #10...but I assure you it is very exciting to me, to all of us!
(I will not say which way he rolled because it may implicate me as a bad mommy.)

Yesterday, I gave him his first bowl of rice cereal. So what you say? Well, I usually pretty skip the whole baby food scene and wean to regular food. That has led to long-time nursers. I am determined to be done with that by age one this time. This sweet little honey seems to like eating, as other family members have treated him to all sorts of tasty treats, so I figured he might as well eat real food. He liked it well enough.
There you have it. Exciting times!
Monday, August 31, 2009
You slapped WHO?
Me to the 6 year old Offending Party: Come down here!
Offending Party: But MOM! I had to, he hit JESUS!
Me to the 3 year old Slapped One: Did you?
Slapped One (still crying): It was just a picture, MOM!
How does one punish for these sorts of offenses? This was not in the parenting manual they gave me at the hospital...Offending Party got punished for slapping his brother and Slapped One had to get punished for hitting Jesus, even though it was "only a picture."

The Fifth Commandment.
Thou shalt not kill.
Was is Das?
We should fear and love God that we may not hurt nor harm our neighbor in his body, but help and befriend him in every bodily need.
Thursday, August 27, 2009
A confession and a commentary.
That is why I love children's adaptations, not all of them, but I have some that I really love because in reading them to my kids, I have learned so much that I did not know!
Our library has one such book detailing The Epic of Gilgamesh for kids! It is so interesting! I know that I cannot bear the poem, but at least they will know the basic story that so many believed in the ancient world for thousands of years.
Then there is the series I found by Mary Pope Osborne, of Magic Tree House fame, that tells the tales of the heroes of ancient Greece. Tales of the Odyssey is a series of seven books that retells the story of the Odysseus and his travels at about a fourth grade level.
Rosemary Sutcliff also retold the story in The Wanderings of Odysseus. It's companion, Black Ships Before Troy, retells the story of The Iliad. The pictures are oh so lovely, but I had a hard time with this one too. Maybe I just have lost brain matter over time or maybe I I am lazy and do not want to have to work at reading.

Charles and Mary Lamb have long been THE children's version of Shakespeare, but I would heartily recommend Bruce Coville's picture books. The illusrations are gorgeous, and appropriately dark for some of the stories.



I guess I have to admit that I even enjoyed Terry Deary's renderings in Top Ten Shakespeare Stories .
That is my confession of the day.
and this is our homeschool...
We get to the name "Agamemnon" and he did not even flinch as he read it fluently. I asked, "Agamemnon? You could read Agamemnon??" "Yes, Mom, I know this story!" (Huh? You do??? How can you know this story when you refuse to read and I am always finding you watching Disney Channel???) So I ask, "How do you know this story??"
"Mom, you know High School Musical? Well, there is a guy on that show named Troy. That is not his real name. He picked it for himself because when he was a little boy, his dad used to read to him a story about Agamemnon. Troy was the name of where the battle was fought and he thought that would be a cool name to have."

So there you go. He doesn't really KNOW the story of Odysseus, but he knows there is a story which is more than I can say for myself at that age. It was a point of reference that made him excited to read the books, so I am happy.
I cannot count the number of times this has happened over the years when I have gone to teach something and they already knew it from some other place in their daily lives....tv, video game, comic book or some other "unacceptable" place.
Sunday, August 23, 2009
Luke 18:9-14

Today's sermon was of particular interest to me today. You know the story, the one where the Pharisee and the tax collector pray and Jesus only hears that of the sinner/tax collector. Jesus does not even acknowledge that of the upstanding lay-leader in the church.

I was thinking about how being a wife and mother is probably the most humbling vocation one can have. I see my own failures at every turn. How submissive a wife I am NOT, if not outwardly certainly inwardly. How patient I am NOT, how compassionate I am NOT, how content in all things I am NOT and last but not least how bad I am at communicating. In case you wondered, I really hate seeing my own failures at every turn. I hate for them to be pointed out too. I find myself repeating, "Lord have mercy" many times each day.
The vocation into which God has placed me has allowed me to desperately cling to Christ's promises to be with me always. His promise to never give me more than I can handle and to always give me the things I need to support this body and life. Failure or even the feelings of failure enable me to see my need for help, my need for Christ and His mercy. Why then do we ever strive to help our kids NOT have failure? We do not want them to have a hard life. I know that I do not wish that for my children! I need to remember that He works through weakness. In fact, the Scriptures remind us the His power is made perfect in weakness! Christ became weak at the cross for our eternal salvation!
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
Favorite snacks
CHEERIO TREATS
- 3 tablespoons butter
- 1 package (10-1/2 ounces) miniature marshmallows
- 1/2 cup peanut butter
- 5+ cups Cheerios
Directions:
Place the butter and marshmallows in a large microwave-safe bowl. microwave, uncovered, on high for 1-2 minutes or until melted. Stir in the peanut butter until blended. Add the cereal (and 1 cup milk chocolate M&M's optional)Spoon into a greased 13-in. x 9-in. pan; press down gently. Cool slightly before cutting. Yield: 15 servings.
CHEX MUDDY BUDDIES ( or Puppy Chow..we call it Dog Food!)
| 9 | Cups any kinds or mixtures of Chex cereal |
| 1 | cup semisweet chocolate chips |
| 1/2 | cup peanut butter |
| 1/4 | cup butter or margarine |
| 1 | teaspoon vanilla |
| 1 1/2 | cups powdered sugar |
| Into large bowl, measure cereal; set aside. | |
| In 1-quart microwavable bowl, microwave chocolate chips, peanut butter and butter uncovered on High 1 minute; stir. Microwave about 30 seconds longer or until mixture can be stirred smooth. Stir in vanilla. Pour mixture over cereal, stirring until evenly coated. Pour into 2-gallon resealable food-storage plastic bag. | |
| Add powdered sugar. Seal bag; shake until well coated. Spread on waxed paper to cool. Store in airtight container in refrigerator. |
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Difficulties
I usually laugh and say, "I wish!" or some such thing. I can tell by the look on their faces that they do not believe me and I that they think I truly must have some sort of super-power.
My "superpower," if I even have one, is making beautiful, healthy babies...and yet, even that is truly God's Work, not mine.
I do have a hard time being a parent. I was SO glad to be done with classroom teaching for several reasons:
- I cannot stand bickering
- I hate being the "judge" when I haven't even been a witness to the "crime"
- I didn't like when parents did not see the "spin" their kid put on a classroom situation
Lord, have mercy.
I just pray that when my children become parents, they have the ability to deal with all of those situations more perfectly than I have been able to.
Family vacation pics
Sunday, July 12, 2009
Vacation photo

This is all twelve of us from littlest to biggest! Thanks to our dear friends from Cheektowaga, NY!
This picture was taken outside of Grandma and Grandpa's cabin at Godfrey's Pond. We go there almost every summer because my dear husband lived there, and eventually worked there as a life guard, every summer while growing up. We always have a campfire and make s'mores. Sometimes we get in a swim and go to look at the birds and maybe get a peacock feather. Whatever the activity, it is always better at the Cabin.
Reading and vacation
I forgot
Saturday, June 20, 2009
Reading
I borrowed a book from the library to read on vacation. I have been wanting to read it for more than a few months, so I am glad to have found it.
My oldest was not impressed with my choice:
Sunday, June 14, 2009
"Let the little children come to Me"
"That You would behold Andrew according to Your boundless mercy and bless him true faith by the Holy Spirit, that through this saving flood all sin in him, which has been inherited from Adam and which he himself committed since, would be drowned and die.
Grant that he be kept safe and secure in the holy ark of the Christian Church, being separated from the multitude of unbelievers and serving Your Name at all times with a fervent spirit and a joyful hope, so that with all believers in Your promise, he would be declared worthy of eternal life; though Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen"
We renounced the Devil's works and his ways and confessed what our saving God has done in the words of the Apostles' Creed....and then, wee Andrew's sins were washed away by water and the Word and he was made an heir with us of all the treasures of Heaven!
We will all, together, live in the Light of Christ and be ever watchful of His coming so that we may meet Him with joy and enter with Him into the marriage Feast of the Lamb in His Kingdom.
And we sang once again:
Sunday, June 7, 2009
THE Day!


Andrew Peter arrived Friday at 3:36pm! He weighed 7 pounds 13 oz and was 21 inches long. He is as perfect as one can be ....until his baptism next Sunday. I am so glad he is in my arms instead of my belly! I am also humbled that God would see fit to give us yet another healthy child...and safe delivery.
I love babies!
Thursday, May 14, 2009
The end
At this point, I am always dying for the end to come and this time is no different. I do not have an "early" track record. #3, #4 and #5 were early, that's all. The rest were on time or late.
I see babies everywhere. I want all of them.
I sit in the Dr's offices and watch those Accent Health tvs that talk about parenting and getting your baby to sleep through the night and, find myself thinking, "Oh! I should try that!" and then by the third time it plays I want to throw something at the screen. I HAVE tried..either I have no willpower or my babies are so contrary that it never works for us...five hours of screaming is so much more easily averted by pulling that hungry baby into bed with me where we can both snuggle and enjoy each other. Maybe that is why I am feeling grouchy right now.....
The baby needs to come so my brain can settle down. The craziness of pregnancy hormones is very, very strong right now. I can think of nothing else but the baby. I have 9 other "babies" who need my attention.
Now I need to find those baby boy newborn clothes. I accidentally got out the girl ones yesterday. I spent ten minutes in WalMart today wondering if I should buy some new baby clothes cause they are so adorable!
Sickness
- no puking
- everyone all at once...not spread out over six weeks like usual
- almost all are big enough to manage "on their own" - the three year old is the only one that NEEEEEEEDS me.
- we live one mile from WalMart. In other words, I can run out and replenish tp/tissues and meds super easily
Saturday, May 2, 2009
Testing

It is that time of year. Friday, I ordered our CAT Tests for our end of year standardized testing required by the state of North Carolina.
Last month, dd#2 took the ACT and today she took the SAT. She is extremely happy to be done with this aspect of schooling.
I even remember taking the SAT! I remember that my allergies were horrible, I had forgotten to bring tissues and I zipped through that test so quickly I was one of the first ones done. (no writing portion in those days.) I even remember that I had scored just 20 points shy of my goal score, and was therefore not taking it over :) My dh scored just 20 points more than my goal score, so he qualified as marriage material. (I had decided early on I had to marry someone smarter than me. LOL)
Oh and one more item of note: Sixteen years from now I will still be taking a student to take that exam..when I am 61 years old!
Sunday, April 26, 2009
Video - the darlings singing
Somehow, I don't think punches and crying fit in too well to help a shut-in worship....although I am glad Jesus allows all of us sinners to be His lambs worth saving..we sure need it!
Oh I just tried to look at the video. It is VERY choppy. I think I will have to have a teenager help me next time.
Friday, April 17, 2009
Concerns
At the last visit I asked a different Dr about inducing right on my due date. He was not loving the idea, and was non-committal. Since the Dr I saw yesterday induced me the last time, I brought it up again. He said that the last time I had dilated 4cm already when I was in for my visit. OH I didn't know. This Dr actually explained the concern he and the other Dr shared...ruptured uterus from inducing with pitocin is much more common in women with many children. He said he didn't have a problem inducing as long as that just meant just breaking my water. I told him that I am totally good with that...if I do not have pitocin,I will probably not need an epidural!
We shall see how it goes now. I can plan all I want, but truth is, God decides when and how that baby arrives!
Thursday, April 16, 2009
Am I really that old?
Dear daughter #3 started Driver's Ed at a local high school this week. I was worried for her...she was (a long time ago) my shyest peanut....how would she do as a teen in a public school environment? I needn't have worried! She even made conversations and enjoyed the social atmosphere!
Breathe mommy..breathe! Now, can I muster up the courage to let her behind the wheel??
Sunday, April 12, 2009
Wednesday, April 8, 2009
One Last Pregnancy Milestone
This milestone is when my sister-in-law's second child was born. We were there for this birth. She was on bedrest, my dh was waiting for a Call after graduating Sem and we'd been helping care for their almost 2 year old and celebrating our firstborn's 2nd birthday with them up in Iowa.
The ambulance came to the house to take her to the hospital. I'll never forget standing there with the two little people, watching through the huge picture window as the ambulance zoomed her away...praying that God would protect her and her little one.
Two days later, her second son was born. He was so small! But like his brother before him and sister after him, is a fine teenager today. There were some big medical scares along the way, but God in His great mercy resolved them.

(This picture of our two second-borns is 4 years old)
These memories comfort me each pregnancy. They are a constant reminder of His mercy.
Friday, April 3, 2009
Celebrating!
I am so happy! This was her first hospital birth, the other 4 were born at home. I hope, for her sake, she didn't make it to the hospital and got to have it at home....but since she isn't on FaceBook right now, I am guessing that is not the case.
When I told my Dr that I knew a bunch of happily pregnant 40+ year old women of more than 3 or 4 already, he looked at me in shock and disbelief. I am guessing that 50 years ago, doctors were not so shocked. I am blessed to know lots of folks who share my convictions about children and motherhood. Even though some days are really hard :)
I wish it was me holding my baby right now. I really want my brain back.
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Not Yours to Give
I read this several years ago and it blew me away. I think President Obama needs to read it and REMEMBER....or more likely CONSIDER.
In this tale an unidentified narrator relates Davy Crockett’s experience when he was a member of Congress (1827–31, 1832–1835). The story is slightly condensed from The Life of Colonel David Crockett compiled by Edward S. Ellis (Philadelphia: Porter & Coates, 1884).
First published as “A Sockdolager” in The Freeman, August 1961, “Not Yours to Give” has been a FEE favorite for more than 40 years, second in popularity only to “I, Pencil.”
Holders of political office are but reflections of the dominant leadership—good or bad—among the electorate. Horatio Bunce is a striking example of responsible citizenship. Were his kind to multiply, we would see many new faces in public office; or as in the case of Davy Crockett, a new Crockett.
One day in the House of Representatives, a bill was taken up appropriating money for the benefit of a widow of a distinguished naval officer. Several beautiful speeches had been made in its support. The Speaker was just about to put the question when Crockett arose:
“Mr. Speaker—I have as much respect for the memory of the deceased, and as much sympathy for the sufferings of the living, if suffering there be, as any man in this House, but we must not permit our respect for the dead or our sympathy for a part of the living to lead us into an act of injustice to the balance of the living. I will not go into an argument to prove that Congress has no power to appropriate this money as an act of charity. Every member upon this floor knows it. We have the right, as individuals, to give away as much of our own money as we please in charity; but as members of Congress we have no right so to appropriate a dollar of the public money. Some eloquent appeals have been made to us upon the ground that it is a debt due the deceased. Mr. Speaker, the deceased lived long after the close of the war; he was in office to the day of his death, and I have never heard that the government was in arrears to him.
“Every man in this House knows it is not a debt. We cannot, without the grossest corruption, appropriate this money as the payment of a debt. We have not the semblance of authority to appropriate it as a charity. Mr. Speaker, I have said we have the right to give as much money of our own as we please. I am the poorest man on this floor. I cannot vote for this bill, but I will give one week’s pay to the object, and if every member of Congress will do the same, it will amount to more than the bill asks.”
He took his seat. Nobody replied. The bill was put upon its passage, and, instead of passing unanimously, as was generally supposed, and as, no doubt, it would, but for that speech, it received but few votes, and, of course, was lost.
Later, when asked by a friend why he had opposed the appropriation, Crockett gave this explanation:
“Several years ago I was one evening standing on the steps of the Capitol with some other members of Congress, when our attention was attracted by a great light over in Georgetown. It was evidently a large fire. We jumped into a hack and drove over as fast as we could. In spite of all that could be done, many houses were burned and many families made houseless, and, besides, some of them had lost all but the clothes they had on. The weather was very cold, and when I saw so many women and children suffering, I felt that something ought to be done for them. The next morning a bill was introduced appropriating $20,000 for their relief. We put aside all other business and rushed it through as soon as it could be done.
“The next summer, when it began to be time to think about the election, I concluded I would take a scout around among the boys of my district. I had no opposition there, but, as the election was some time off, I did not know what might turn up. When riding one day in a part of my district in which I was more of a stranger than any other, I saw a man in a field plowing and coming toward the road. I gauged my gait so that we should meet as he came up to the fence. As he came up, I spoke to the man. He replied politely, but, as I thought, rather coldly.
“I began: ‘Well, friend, I am one of those unfortunate beings called candidates, and—’
“ ‘Yes I know you; you are Colonel Crockett. I have seen you once before, and voted for you the last time you were elected. I suppose you are out electioneering now, but you had better not waste your time or mine. I shall not vote for you again.’
“This was a sockdolager . . . I begged him to tell me what was the matter.
“ ‘Well, Colonel, it is hardly worth-while to waste time or words upon it. I do not see how it can be mended, but you gave a vote last winter which shows that either you have not capacity to understand the Constitution, or that you are wanting in the honesty and firmness to be guided by it. In either case you are not the man to represent me. But I beg your pardon for expressing it in that way. I did not intend to avail myself of the privilege of the constituent to speak plainly to a candidate for the purpose of insulting or wounding you. I intend by it only to say that your understanding of the Constitution is very different from mine; and I will say to you what, but for my rudeness, I should not have said, that I believe you to be honest. . . . But an understanding of the Constitution different from mine I cannot overlook, because the Constitution, to be worth anything, must be held sacred, and rigidly observed in all its provisions. The man who wields power and misinterprets it is the more dangerous the more honest he is.’
“ ‘I admit the truth of all you say, but there must be some mistake about it, for I do not remember that I gave any vote last winter upon any constitutional question.’
“ ‘No, Colonel, there’s no mistake. Though I live here in the backwoods and seldom go from home, I take the papers from Washington and read very carefully all the proceedings of Congress. My papers say that last winter you voted for a bill to appropriate $20,000 to some sufferers by a fire in Georgetown. Is that true?’
“ ‘Well, my friend; I may as well own up. You have got me there. But certainly nobody will complain that a great and rich country like ours should give the insignificant sum of $20,000 to relieve its suffering women and children, particularly with a full and overflowing Treasury, and I am sure, if you had been there, you would have done just as I did.’
“ ‘It is not the amount, Colonel, that I complain of; it is the principle. In the first place, the government ought to have in the Treasury no more than enough for its legitimate purposes. But that has nothing to do with the question. The power of collecting and disbursing money at pleasure is the most dangerous power that can be entrusted to man, particularly under our system of collecting revenue by a tariff, which reaches every man in the country, no matter how poor he may be, and the poorer he is the more he pays in proportion to his means. What is worse, it presses upon him without his knowledge where the weight centers, for there is not a man in the United States who can ever guess how much he pays to the government. So you see, that while you are contributing to relieve one, you are drawing it from thousands who are even worse off than he. If you had the right to give anything, the amount was simply a matter of discretion with you, and you had as much right to give $20,000,000 as $20,000. If you have the right to give to one, you have the right to give to all; and, as the Constitution neither defines charity nor stipulates the amount, you are at liberty to give to any and everything which you may believe, or profess to believe, is a charity, and to any amount you may think proper. You will very easily perceive what a wide door this would open for fraud and corruption and favoritism, on the one hand, and for robbing the people on the other. No, Colonel, Congress has no right to give charity. Individual members may give as much of their own money as they please, but they have no right to touch a dollar of the public money for that purpose. If twice as many houses had been burned in this county as in Georgetown, neither you nor any other member of Congress would have thought of appropriating a dollar for our relief. There are about two hundred and forty members of Congress. If they had shown their sympathy for the sufferers by contributing each one week’s pay, it would have made over $13,000. There are plenty of wealthy men in and around Washington who could have given $20,000 without depriving themselves of even a luxury of life. The congressmen chose to keep their own money, which, if reports be true, some of them spend not very creditably; and the people about Washington, no doubt, applauded you for relieving them from the necessity of giving what was not yours to give. The people have delegated to Congress, by the Constitution, the power to do certain things. To do these, it is authorized to collect and pay moneys, and for nothing else. Everything beyond this is usurpation, and a violation of the Constitution.
“ ‘So you see, Colonel, you have violated the Constitution in what I consider a vital point. It is a precedent fraught with danger to the country, for when Congress once begins to stretch its power beyond the limits of the Constitution, there is no limit to it, and no security for the people. I have no doubt you acted honestly, but that does not make it any better, except as far as you are personally concerned, and you see that I cannot vote for you.’
“I tell you I felt streaked. I saw if I should have opposition, and this man should go to talking, he would set others to talking, and in that district I was a gone fawn-skin. I could not answer him, and the fact is, I was so fully convinced that he was right, I did not want to. But I must satisfy him, and I said to him:
“ ‘Well, my friend, you hit the nail upon the head when you said I had not sense enough to understand the Constitution. I intended to be guided by it, and thought I had studied it fully. I have heard many speeches in Congress about the powers of Congress, but what you have said here at your plow has got more hard, sound sense in it than all the fine speeches I ever heard. If I had ever taken the view of it that you have, I would have put my head into the fire before I would have given that vote; and if you will forgive me and vote for me again, if I ever vote for another unconstitutional law I wish I may be shot.’
“He laughingly replied; ‘Yes, Colonel, you have sworn to that once before, but I will trust you again upon one condition. You say that you are convinced that your vote was wrong. Your acknowledgment of it will do more good than beating you for it. If, as you go around the district, you will tell people about this vote, and that you are satisfied it was wrong, I will not only vote for you, but will do what I can to keep down opposition, and, perhaps, I may exert some little influence in that way.’
“ ‘If I don’t,’ said I, ‘I wish I may be shot; and to convince you that I am in earnest in what I say I will come back this way in a week or ten days, and if you will get up a gathering of the people, I will make a speech to them. Get up a barbecue, and I will pay for it.’
“ ‘No, Colonel, we are not rich people in this section, but we have plenty of provisions to contribute for a barbecue, and some to spare for those who have none. The push of crops will be over in a few days, and we can then afford a day for a barbecue. This is Thursday; I will see to getting it up on Saturday week. Come to my house on Friday, and we will go together, and I promise you a very respectable crowd to see and hear you.’
“ ‘Well, I will be here. But one thing more before I say good-by. I must know your name.’
“ ‘My name is Bunce.’
“ ‘Not Horatio Bunce?’
“ ‘Yes.’
“ ‘Well, Mr. Bunce, I never saw you before, though you say you have seen me, but I know you very well. I am glad I have met you, and very proud that I may hope to have you for my friend.’
“It was one of the luckiest hits of my life that I met him. He mingled but little with the public, but was widely known for his remarkable intelligence and incorruptible integrity, and for a heart brimfull and running over with kindness and benevolence, which showed themselves not only in words but in acts. He was the oracle of the whole country around him, and his fame had extended far beyond the circle of his immediate acquaintance. Though I had never met him before, I had heard much of him, and but for this meeting it is very likely I should have had opposition, and had been beaten. One thing is very certain, no man could now stand up in that district under such a vote.
“At the appointed time I was at his house, having told our conversation to every crowd I had met, and to every man I stayed all night with, and I found that it gave the people an interest and a confidence in me stronger than I had ever seen manifested before.
“Though I was considerably fatigued when I reached his house, and, under ordinary circumstances, should have gone early to bed, I kept him up until midnight, talking about the principles and affairs of government, and got more real, true knowledge of them than I had got all my life before.
“I have known and seen much of him since, for I respect him—no, that is not the word—I reverence and love him more than any living man, and I go to see him two or three times every year; and I will tell you, sir, if every one who professes to be a Christian lived and acted and enjoyed it as he does, the religion of Christ would take the world by storm.
“But to return to my story. The next morning we went to the barbecue, and, to my surprise, found about a thousand men there. I met a good many whom I had not known before, and they and my friend introduced me around until I had got pretty well acquainted—at least, they all knew me.
“In due time notice was given that I would speak to them. They gathered up around a stand that had been erected. I opened my speech by saying:
“ ‘Fellow-citizens—I present myself before you today feeling like a new man. My eyes have lately been opened to truths which ignorance or prejudice, or both, had heretofore hidden from my view. I feel that I can today offer you the ability to render you more valuable service than I have ever been able to render before. I am here today more for the purpose of acknowledging my error than to seek your votes. That I should make this acknowledgment is due to myself as well as to you. Whether you will vote for me is a matter for your consideration only.’
“I went on to tell them about the fire and my vote for the appropriation and then told them why I was satisfied it was wrong. I closed by saying:
“ ‘And now, fellow-citizens, it remains only for me to tell you that the most of the speech you have listened to with so much interest was simply a repetition of the arguments by which your neighbor, Mr. Bunce, convinced me of my error.
“ ‘It is the best speech I ever made in my life, but he is entitled to the credit for it. And now I hope he is satisfied with his convert and that he will get up here and tell you so.’
“He came upon the stand and said:
“ ‘Fellow-citizens—It affords me great pleasure to comply with the request of Colonel Crockett. I have always considered him a thoroughly honest man, and I am satisfied that he will faithfully perform all that he has promised you today.’
“He went down, and there went up from that crowd such a shout for Davy Crockett as his name never called forth before.
“I am not much given to tears, but I was taken with a choking then and felt some big drops rolling down my cheeks. And I tell you now that the remembrance of those few words spoken by such a man, and the honest, hearty shout they produced, is worth more to me than all the honors I have received and all the reputation I have ever made, or ever shall make, as a member of Congress.”
“Now, sir,” concluded Crockett, “you know why I made that speech yesterday.
“There is one thing now to which I will call your attention. You remember that I proposed to give a week’s pay. There are in that House many very wealthy men—men who think nothing of spending a week’s pay, or a dozen of them, for a dinner or a wine party when they have something to accomplish by it. Some of those same men made beautiful speeches upon the great debt of gratitude which the country owed the deceased—a debt which could not be paid by money—and the insignificance and worthlessness of money, particularly so insignificant a sum as $10,000, when weighed against the honor of the nation. Yet not one of them responded to my proposition. Money with them is nothing but trash when it is to come out of the people. But it is the one great thing for which most of them are striving, and many of them sacrifice honor, integrity, and justice to obtain it.”
Monday, March 30, 2009
A Movie Review

While the girls enjoyed it, I couldn't watch it. I had to leave by ten minutes in. I came back and saw the last 15 minutes...Juno Giving birth to a beautiful son.
I have been trying to figure it out for days...why couldn't I watch it??? Teenage pregnancy breaks my heart. Maybe I could have watched it if I wasn't pregnant myself. I just cannot imagine a child enduring this blessed condition ALONE.
My sister-in-law worked with teen girls in this situation for many years. I was so glad that she was with them to guide them to support them to help them, but it was not glamorous. It was not all sunshine and rainbows. I thanked God for her care and her resolve, but I know I could never do it.
Let me interject that the one HUGE positive in the movie - Juno does not have an abortion. I think it takes a tremendous amount of courage for a person to give up their baby for adoption. I couldn't do that either. Discussing it with one of my girls, neither could she..unless it was to her dad and me. I couldn't imagine that either!
I know these things happen in the real world. I do. I also cannot comprehend why a woman would choose to have a child without a husband.
And yet these things are really commonplace in our society!
Maybe my overwhelming emotions come from my deep seated belief that intimacy belongs in marriage alone. That physical relationship is a treasure, a gift from one person to another. Whether the participants realize it or not, they are bonded together as one. I have never understood "sleeping around." I am very close to just very few people...and those people have changed over time. The one thing I loved about getting married was that I got a best friend that I would have FOREVER..no leaving. "Friends-with-benefits" applies to MARRIAGE! But that is not the way the media portrays it and it makes me so angry!
Dh affectionately says I prefer to live in my non-reality bubble and I hate seeing the real world. I think the real world is a very sad and broken place so I guess he is right. But our "little" family IS my world...and it IS a happy place for the most part. The kids see the world..and live in it, but are not of it. What more can I hope for? That was always my hope for them anyway.
Saturday, March 28, 2009
My Song is Love Unknown
Glasses - Shameless Plug

Rachel ordered Rx sunglasses from them a few years ago and they were great AND cheap! $8 frames, $5 for sunglasses tint and $5 shipping.
Since my dear husband, dear daughter #2 and I just got new glasses, we decided to order some sunglasses too. It is very sunny here in NC most of the year. Driving will be so much easier if we don't have to squint. AND if all three of us order at the same time, the shipping will be just $5 for three pairs! Maybe dh will order new racquetball goggles as well!
Milestones
From 2005, when those babies were both just 14....

I often speak to other women about their pregnancy and birthing experiences. It is one of my favorite subjects after all! ALL of my stories are "boring" in comparison. I may complain about pregnancy sometimes, but I truly humbled that God has graciously allowed all of our children to be born not only in due time, but healthy and strong.
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
Engineering - I know this counts as school!
Payback
Did I exasperate my parents so much God gave me 9 (soon to be 10) kids as payback????
Some days I do wonder!
Today, the three year old peed down the heat/ac register...right next to me. He had no idea this was not a good plan and was completely surprised that he got punished for it.
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Breast Cancer

I finally found an article that discusses how childbirth and nursing reduce the risk of breast cancer. I had read about it in a WIC office several years ago, but have since not been able to find a place to point to until now.
From the American Cancer Society website:
Breastfeeding Can Reduce A Woman's Risk Of Breast Cancer
Childbirth alone reduces the risk by 4% per baby. (me 36% right there) Nursing reduces the risk by an additional 7% per year. (That adds upwards of 70% reduction). Why doesn't the media talk about those statistics? Why don't the schools?
Yes, just like they don't talk about how couples who abstain until marriage don't get ANY STDs. (And yet, for all of my pregnancies I have had to be tested for all of them anyway. Because, as Dr. House says, "Everyone lies.")
I don't mean to be crass or inappropriate, it just makes me frustrated that society is quick to judge me if I eat red meat or do not recycle but it also judges me if I procreate as God has designed....
Saturday, March 14, 2009
What is really wrong here?
This is one of those times when the problems began way before the case came to court. Let's not talk about how divorce is wrong or how a wife not submitting to her husband's headship is wrong, let's instead focus on how these kids are not being brought to worship at the public education altar.
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
A Choice?
My husband tried to say that it IS a challenge, but God provides strength from somewhere. I almost started crying on the spot, recalling some of the challenges we faced and how neither of us knew how God would work them out...but He always did. The burdens were very great at times, very painful, and yet, we both know pastors who have suffered even more than we have for the sake of speaking the Truth in love.
II Corinthians 12:10 That is why, for Christ's sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.
The man dismissed my dh's words, "Yes, yes, I know God will help me." and then went on to try to clarify what he thought my husband did not understand. Physically and mentally he didn't know that a 50+ year old man could endure just those aspects. What he did not understand was that, 50 or not, a beating is a beating.
All afternoon, I thought about something my dh responds to the question, "When did you know God wanted you to be a Pastor?" He always responds, "The day I was ordained to serve a congregation." and after that, whenever he was installed to serve another. Until that time, he prepared for what he thought he should do, never knowing for sure if that was God's plan for him or not.
I also thought about what my dh has chosen to do. He wants to tell folks about Jesus and forgiveness and give them "the Peace that Passeth all Understanding." He did not choose to struggle. He did not choose to be personally attacked or to have his family personally attacked. He did not choose to be poor or choose to be ignored or unappreciated. So many things he did not choose.
What this seminarian does not yet understand is that these struggles, while outwardly can be awful, are instruments of God's grace as well. These personal struggles have opened our eyes to see God's smallest blessings. They have caused us to cling more fervently to the Promises of Christ. They have caused us both to see the wickedness of all people, including ourselves and the desperate need for all to know that CHRIST did it ALL FOR YOU.
That even when you feel you can bear no more, you can tell the Truth yet again...hopefully planting or watering another seed of God's Grace.
It reminds me of being pregnant and childbirth. I have "easy, textbook" pregnancies. And yet, I do not enjoy being pregnant. I count the days til the baby pops out and the body aches and pains leave and the horrible mood swings go away. Labor..who can say that is fun?? Any mother will tell you that the pain makes you feel as if you are going to die and that there is no way you can accomplish this seemingly insurmountable task. I've even shouted (screamed) "I CAN'T DO IT!!!!" more than a few times. And yet, by the grace of God, I DID do it and I lived to breathe another day.
Serving the church is like that. There are SO many things a Pastor cannot do of his own choice. Hold his tongue and still speak the Truth in love. Give communion to those who have attacked him and his family..as the hand of Christ. Look at folks who despise Christ's Own Word, and continue to feed them the Word anyway like a parent feeds his beligerent child broccoli, because it is good for them. These things he does as God grants him grace..day to day, moment to moment.
As Christians, we are to bear each other's burdens. To bear..to deal with..to accept and help another with their weakness of not just bodily ailments (that is easy in comparison!) but patience with their lack of knowledge or faith, and loving them not just anyway, but despite their frailties.
I know that my poor dh has had to bear up with my ignorance and stubborness in spiritual things..he had no idea God used his "fights" with me to prepare him for challenges in the congregations he has served. But I hope and pray that as God has allowed me to grow and learn from him, dh can be encouraged to keep on preaching and teaching, realizing that if God can change this stubborn German, He can change anyone!
Friday, February 27, 2009
Ash Wednesday
WHAT?
at this point the three year old blurts out, "Daddy said TOOT! Daddy said 'we shouldn't toot' in church!"
(in case the term is unfamiliar to you...in our house Toot means ...pass gas.)
That was the end of that. All of us lost it. Giggling from our family from the oldest down to the youngest. (I TRIED not to giggle really I did!) AND we were sitting in the front.
Wednesday, February 11, 2009
Freedom of Choice Act
Dear Lauri,
As you may have heard, Congress has not yet introduced the Freedom of Choice Act (FOCA). That's because the pro-abortion forces have heard your voice. Planned Parenthood President Cecile Richards told the Wall Street Journal:
We're going to be smart and strategic about our policy agenda to bring people together to make progress for women's health. The Freedom of Choice Act is very important . . . but we have a long list of things to get done that I think can address problems immediately that women are facing, that are really immediate concerns.
In other words, because of the more than 650,000 people like you who have stood up to Fight FOCA, pro-abortion forces are focusing on another tactic for now -- FOCA-by-Stealth.
They want to try to pass pieces of FOCA under your nose. The first target is your pocketbook.
The top priority for Planned Parenthood and their pro-abortion allies is to repeal the laws that prohibit federal funding of abortion. Often called pro-life "riders," the pro-abortion forces want House Speaker Nancy Pelosi to eliminate them and start using our tax dollars to pay for abortion-on-demand . . . nationwide.
Thankfully, a bi-partisan group of Members of Congress are standing up to Speaker Nancy Pelosi and Cecile Richards of Planned Parenthood (who used to work for Speaker Pelosi). A letter to Speaker Pelosi written by Republican Congressman Jim Jordan of Ohio and Democrat Congressman Heath Schuler of North Carolina is being circulated for signatures by Members of Congress.
Please ask your member of Congress to sign the Jordan/Schuler letter.
Just click this link.
The deadline is this Friday, February 13.
Yours for Life,
Charmaine
Charmaine Yoest, Ph.D.
President & CEO
AUL Action The Legislative Arm of Americans United for Life
FightFOCA.com
FightFOCA@FightFOCA.com
P.S. -- A PDF of the letter is available at the AUL Action blog. Please ask your member of Congress to sign it before Friday!
Another milestone
Why is that a milestone you ask? My sister-in-law had three preemies. Her youngest was born at 23 weeks. While most babies born that prematurely either die or are encumbered with innumerable disabilities, our dear niece is perfect. A perfect miracle...and dear daughter #3's best
This is an old picture, but the love remains:

Thank you God.
Monday, February 9, 2009
Too Many Babies?

I am actually pleasantly surprised that the NYT showed both sides of this issue! Another friend sent a story last week about how having a big family is poor stewardship of the world's resources.(She does not ageree) I about flipped! I actually posted a comment to this British article ("Two Children should be the Limit, says Green Guru") because I couldn't believe anyone would think that. The author obviously did not know anyone with lots of children. The only thing we buy new is toilet paper :) haha.

I honestly have to say, that most everyone I have come in contact with over the years has been supportive, or at least not mean or rude. Maybe I don't notice if they are being mean. Many have asked if I run a daycare when the kids pile out of the 15 passenger van, and I laugh and tell them they are all mine. My husband and I get a real kick out of the looks on people's faces when they discover none are adopted, they are not his, hers and our but are all ours.
One time, in the ob office, pregnant with #9, I had a conversation with a very young mom pregnant with #2. I never, ever bring up how many kids I have there because most moms are proud of having their first or second/last and I think it would be kind of mean of me to "top" them. Anyway, this mom asked if it was my first then second..and then how many do you have??? When I told her, the first words she gasped out of her mouth were, "How do you afford them????" "Nursing and cloth diapers," I replied. The look on her face was shock and horror at such things. I thought it was funny, but sad. I LOVE nursing. I LOVE cuddling my babies. Diaper changing time is...fun. Ok maybe I am crazy. I love when they are done with diapers, but that time of singing and nursery rhymes and silliness is sweet.

I am totally digressing here, you know the rhyme:
One Two Buckle My Shoe
Three, four shut the door
Five, six pick up sticks
Seven Eight lay them straight
Nine, ten a big fat hen!
When child #7 was wee..maybe a year and a half, she would get into trouble because she would kick my pregnant belly when I changed her didy on the floor of the bathroom. So one day as we were saying that rhyme together, she blurts out, as I wait for her to finish the rhyme: A BIG FAT BELLY! LOL That is the way we said it for years until #9 came along and changed it to A BIG FAT CHEESE! (He LOVES cheese) I love those moments.
I am not saying I TRIED for a big family because I did not. I cried more than once at the thought of "doing it all over again," because it is work. But I tell you this much, while we are "poor" in the world's eyes, God is allowing us to grow the church the fun way without special programs and fund drives. God gives big birthday parties without invitations...the kids will always have each other through the many storms life will bring...someone who will understand why they are the way they are and love them anyway. And holy cow..weddings are going to be SO MUCH FUN! LOL
I could go on and on about this subject, really I could. But the bottom line for me/us is what God said:
Psalm 127: children are the gift of the Lord, “as arrows are in the hand of a mighty man,” and “happy is the man that hath his quiver full of them.”
Kids are gifts. Gifts given by a generous God.
Ps-that quilt design was taken from a book by Anna Grossnickle Hines called, of course, One Two Buckle My Shoe.



